It was 55K in hidden credit card debt, pay day loans... you could have blown me over with a feather.
I remember Refinancing the mortgage. Sweeping it under the rug. “Home Renovations”. 3 months later…. It happened again. Another 15K in debt and it was that day . I made a decision to put my own oxygen mask on, and save myself.
To do what was HARD. To leave. To make his problems. HIS problems, and I packed up 2 garbage bags of essentials and left.
Not taking half of everything like I could have easily fought for. I left. Everything I worked so hard for. Saved for. Planned for. Gone. I did everything “The right way”.
I had a 4 month old baby, and the life I planned out and tried to CONTROL didn’t work out too well.
When I moved out, I shared a room with my baby boy . We slept in the same room, and there was no alone time, but we had love and he was my strength. We were surrounded by love,...