Years ago I had a hater named Janice... who assumed all I did all day long was pawn my kids off and go shopping while I worked from home.
Years ago I also had a good friend name Kate who blocked and unfriended me when my business was successful and hers wasn’t.
Years ago I had a good friend laugh at me when I told her I was going to retire my husband.
But here’s the thing about haters.
You’re only shining light onto their darkness and most often it’s rooted in their own insecurity. It’s not even about you.
What the heck do you do all day?
An EMPTY day… As a business owner… or a BIG DREAMER
What do you do all day, and how do you do it all with kids?
Or how DID you do it?
Well first off, you gotta be deeply connected with a HEART and a mission for that will keep going going when the haters come
Second, if you want a better life, you don’t quit, and you...
Things are not as they appear, and fear is an illusion of the mind, which means you are in control of your thoughts and actions. Isn’t that refreshing to know you can be your own hero?
There are a lot of people who will wake up today and choose not to believe. They will hear those whispers of greatness within, yet they will continue to go in the opposite direction.
They will hear and receive inspired ideas and then choose not to take inspired action but rather sit there and complain, mope, whine and wonder why their life sucks. They will lose themselves to distraction and mediocrity.
But not you. Not ever.
Hear those whispers and those inspired ideas for what comes in, must go out. So why when a new idea or inspired action move comes into your space would you ever want to keep it bottled up inside?
Eventually if you do, you’ll die a little more each day from living an uninspired life.
Will those ideas make your life worse by taking...
There comes a time in every grown woman’s life where she walks up the stairs in her home, and asks herself... What do I WANT for my life.
What would a perfect day look like?
Why am I doing STILL this of it doesn’t make me happy?
What’s the point really if I am always so busy, to not even enjoy the little things in life?
What must I do to make this life of mine exactly how I want it.
Then that ONE days comes where she turns In toward, says fuck it all, makes up her mind, and then gets busy creating the kind of life we wants.
Not the one she was conditioned to, or believed she had to live to make others happy.
A life all of her own.
A life she loves to wake up to.
A life that makes sense to her.
A life of meaning and contribution, and that feels good within despite what the critics think you should do.
I’ve walked up the stairs in MY HOME many times. That home of yours isn’t the one you pay a mortgage on... or are sooooo busy working for, to not even sit down to...
Today I want to talk about HAPPINESS, and your NEW story.
The story where you are happy, healthy, passionate, energized, free, full of LIFE and that spark again.
... 2 Years ago my story was PTSD, anxiety medication and complete burnout.
....5 Years ago my story was a tired, flabby, miserable corporate mom of 2 with a shift working husband who fought, and screamed a lot over scheduled and money.
... 6 Year ago my story was a boss telling me I made too much and put my salary on a freeze.
...9 years ago my story was burying my sons father who we lost at the age of 35 to cancer and taking my second stress leave.
...11 years ago my story was taking my first stress leave as I was going through a divorce and becoming a single mom.
... 12 years ago my story was a real life intervention episode, but walked around pretending to be "good".
...15 years ago my story was dieting, skipping meals, hopping on the scale, measuring my worth by numbers
...20+ years ago my story was obesity, bad back,...
Are you a so-called "Perfectionist".. but yet NOT living a happy life?
Are you a “𝗣𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗶𝘀𝘁”...or just a scared little baby? Yes, it's my job as a high performance life coach to rattle your cage a little.
Many people will have great intentions today of improving their lives, but then tell themselves stories that prevent them from even starting
I’ll wait until I start eating perfectly before I start working out.
I’ll wait until the kids are older, and then I can invest more time.
I will wait until the house is organized before I start that business, or change jobs.
Waiting… Calling themselves “𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙨”
Something can only be perfected when it is RELEASED. 𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 ACTUALLY 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩.
Then you can go back and tweak, make it better, hone in your skills and “perfect it”.
If you ‘re not moving forward.. You’re actually just 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣 𝙁𝙀𝘼𝙍.. So no. You’re not a “perfectionist”... you’re just...
Time to put your money where your mouth is and BRING the JOY instead of the hate.
Your body hears what you think... So, are you speaking LOVE to yourself and others or are you bringing hate, judgement, comparison?
Do you remember when you a little girl in kindergarten and were just happy, carefree, didn’t fixate on how you looked or stacked up to others... and didn’t compare yourself to anyone else?
That’s the GOAL here!
Self consciousness and comparison is the thief of joy, and you MUST make it your job to get to a space of radical self love and acceptance.
Well if you’re waking up tired, out of shape, overweight with body aches... YOUR morning rituals are very different than mine.
If you are waking up stressed, anxious and losing our sh*t on your kids every morning, YOUR morning rituals are very different than mine.
If you are waking up scrolling, judging, rolling your eyes balls and comparing yourself to others to only feel NOT...
"You get in life what you have the courage to ask for" ~ Oprah Winfrey