Change Your Life by Letting Go!

Right now someone is out there in the world building a case against you.
Why you don’t deserve it, why they don’t like you, what’s wrong with you, and they are failing to see their own actions as the common denominator of their own life sucking.
So who’s side are you on?
Well, I sure hope to God you’re on your own side, for those who truly get it only show up to give love, spread love and be love, because that’s all they’ve got left inside to give.
Are you on the darkside of life building a case against others, are you in the winning side and building a case as to WHY you freaking deserve a happy, healthy and abundant life?
Today’s Challenge: Cut the crap.
It’s a new day today and you have an opportunity to make it anything you want it to be right here. Right now in this present moment.
What if you accepted that where you are right now is exactly where God wanted you to be,...
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How to be Happy 101

mindset self love Nov 28, 2020
Without VISION you my beautiful friend will be stuck, sliding backwards with no hope in hell until you start to see a better future for yourself, know it can be yours and live into what you’ve been called to.
💫What happens when you’ve only ever received your validation from external situations and others?
💫What happens when your self-worth, your value, your definition of success is given to you by others?
It’s easy to be happy when things are going right, but what happens when they aren’t?
You’re happy when you’re making more money, the phone is ringing and you’re feeling extra important and special.
You’re happy when the bills are paid, there is money left over, and you’re getting the results in life you want.
But what happens to you when all that goes away and you’re left alone in the dark?
You lose the job. The finances crumble. Your friends leave you. You get sick. No one is calling you anymore.
You suddenly hit...
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Winners Find a Way to Win. Losers Don't.

mindset self love Nov 10, 2020
Now you’re getting “older”, and you will never get to see what you could have been because the cost of getting to see it is a commitment that you’ve NEVER been willing to pay.
You’re trying to get someone to fall in love with a you, you’ve never actually discovered for yourself.
So beauty, who are you betting your life on?
Yourself or the needs of others?
✨Who will you trust with it comes to providing for your family? Your own work ethic or the work ethic of others who might show up only when they “feel” like it.
✨Who will you blame when the person you need to help you has something more important to do and you placed your livelihood in the hands of another human just showing up for a paycheque?
✨Who will you turn to when the company you’ve lost yourself for closes, the money runs out and all hell breaks loose and you’ve got food to put on the table?
✨Who will you...
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Wake Up Tired?

mindset self love Nov 03, 2020
Waking up tired no matter how much sleep you get?
Well you could be weighed down by more than you think, and that heaviness and lack of spark could be because you’re not living your own life, but rather comparing yourself to others.
So how does one get over jealousy, envy, comparison and get started on their own path to unlocking their own purpose in life and ultimately finding true personal freedom?
Emotional intelligence is so important so the first step is witnessing it, and I bet your happiness meter is lower than you think it is if you find yourself tired.
Life should feel better, and you should be fulfilled, so let’s give you some tips today so you can start to manage your emotions, but let me start off with the FACTS first.
There is only 1 you on this planet.
You are different. Your story is unique, and you came here for a purpose, but if your’e not allowing your struggle to grow you, you’ll be...
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How To Handle Haters

mindset motivation Oct 22, 2020

Years ago I had a hater named Janice... who assumed all I did all day long was pawn my kids off and go shopping while I worked from home.

Years ago I also had a good friend name Kate who blocked and unfriended me when my business was successful and hers wasn’t.


Years ago I had a good friend laugh at me when I told her I was going to retire my husband.


But here’s the thing about haters.


You’re only shining light onto their darkness and most often it’s rooted in their own insecurity. It’s not even about you.  




What the heck do you do all day?


An EMPTY day… As a business owner… or a BIG DREAMER


What do you do all day, and how do you do it all with kids?


Or how DID you do it?


Well first off, you gotta be deeply connected with a HEART and a mission for that will keep going going when the haters come


Second, if you want a better life, you don’t quit, and you...

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I went to a Therapist once...

I went to a therapist once for my mental health, but something was “off”.  

I was going through intense PTSD, anxiety, needed medication, and was scared to be alone after a pretty scary life event that shifted something “upstairs”.  

She told me I should be doing Yoga.  

I mean...  

How could she really be teaching and helping me about my own mental health when she herself was extremely overweight, and had bowls of candy in her office?  

Not judging. Just reporting facts.  

So I actually took my health and healing into my own hands.  

You see.....  

There are a lot of “fake” teachers out there.  

Talking the talk, but not actually walking the walk, for anyone who values their own mental health and well-being knows the importance of eating the right foods, being at an ideal body weight, moving their body and removing the sugar.  

So no, I actually wasn’t buying the “books smarts”...

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Got Big Dreams but Scared to Start?

mindset motivation Sep 18, 2020
Did you know the average age of entrepreneurs today is 40-50?
That takes a shift... a plot twist... a loss of a job.. a pandemic for people to wake the hell up and realize NO ONE is safe.
Companies closing after 20 years of service.. and guess what? Were you really going to wear that gold pin anyways?
Things are NOT going back to normal. If you’ve yet to study recessions, you either do 1 of 2 things.
Wait for things to get better, return back to “normal”, and blame people or things for your lack of growth, or you get the hell up, skill up, pivot, adapt, and DO something to make your life better.
Last time I checked... No one is coming to save you, and it’s a long ways to retirement doing shit you hate.
Best tips💗
Don’t let small minded people stop you, and most importantly don’t let that small minded person be YOURSELF.
Seriously people won’t get you... and they will think...
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Wanna Know A Secret

mindset motivation Sep 18, 2020
Do you wanna know a secret?
It feels good to feel good. So to all those in their winning season, make sure you take a minute to FEEL that win, for I guarantee your losing season wasn’t pretty, and you can easily lose your winning streak if you dim your light because you’ve allowed others who aren’t winning in life to rub off on you.
If you feel as if you’re losing.
Fear not friend, for your time is coming too and it’s all unfolding perfectly for you, but you’ll never be a winner in life if you’re not cheering everyone on to win.
That’s what losers do… Trust me. I was one of them, and it never felt very nice. Your job is to get BETTER, not stay bitter.
So tell me.
Who would YOU be?
What would YOU do?
How would YOU speak?
What would YOU do with your life?
Or do you even know yourself or did you lose her feeling not good enough?
Are you being yourself or are you being who...
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Thanks, but NO thanks!

mindset motivation Sep 06, 2020
Living a life you don’t love? Um… No thanks!
Keep showing up and don’t quit until you’ve found that personal freedom!
💫Think of all the times you showed up and kept your mouth shut even though you knew better and wanted to speak up.
💫Think of all the times you did something above and beyond for others and they didn’t notice.
💫Think of all the times you knew something was off and you stayed longer simple because you wanted to make others happy, or do a really great job, and yet at the end of the day you were filled with frustration, resentment, bitterness, and anger because you gave too much away.
💫Think about all that time and energy you put out for others to not appreciate you and yet internally you were feeding yourself with all of the negatives emotions that went along with you not standing up for yourself, speaking your voice, valuing your time, or taking your power back.
You some how...
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Stress Free Living

mindset self love Aug 11, 2020

Ready to live stress free and full of life?

Wouldn’t it be beautiful to wake up and know that you don’t have to get anything, be anywhere, or do anything, but rather show up to be yourself, and give more of yourself than ever before?


You lack nothing. You need nothing.  You essentially are nothing but rather an energy source from within that you can’t see.


I took 2 stress leaves before the age of 30.  I would say a decade of stress, that kept compounding, and at the time you don’t realize how much you place upon yourself, but it all adds up.  Eventually you crack, for failing health doesn’t just happen.


Eventually you hit a brick wall, and you’ve got no other option but to change your ways and do life differently.


Everything outside of yourself won’t make you happy or make you feel secure, but rather it’s an illusion and a game the rest of the world can play, for players of that game will...

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