No More Fucks to Give

You can try harder, or you can take a nap. I’d suggest the nap.

There is something mystical about the art of having no more fucks to give. It’s almost like you’ve cared for way too long, tried way too hard, and have literally done everything in your power to make something work, and there you are, no longer where you want to be, exhausted and drained from all of your effort.

I’m sure if you’re reading this post, you might have been there. Where you’re done.

Like, done done.

But this kind of done isn’t because you stopped caring. It’s a spiritual surrender that comes with the understanding that no matter what happens, you’re perfectly fine with whatever unfolds, and you’re no longer trying to chase something or force something to happen.

You’ve prayed, pleaded with God, optimized your morning routine, doubled up on your workouts, got more credentials, read more books, deprived yourself of all good foods and drinks, bought some more crystals, tried all the rituals and oils, even pulled out your bible, gone to church, a healer or more doctors, even stood under a full fucking moon perhaps and danced around to a banging drum, and even burned some sage or your journal entries and yet… There you are.

Realizing that all of what you’ve tried didn’t fucking work, and what you want still hasn’t come to pass.

You’re done… and that’s a beautiful place to be, for it opens up even greater amounts of energy, and greater amounts of love and spiritual truth.

If you’ve ever been in the space of personal development, or have gone to a business conference, networking event, or personal growth seminar, you might be well aware of the fact that they try to cram as much shit into one day as humanly possible. Breaks are limited, and the days are long. There’s flip charts, sharing circles, note taking, and really if I’m being completely honest, a bunch of boring bullshit that you probably won’t even need or even remember 10 years from now.

Spirit doesn’t actually work that way, nor does your body function by just cramming in as much information as possible, or just sharing everything to random people you just met while you’re chit chatting over a fruit platter and handing out your cool new business card.

You need time, space, alone time, and a lot of peace and quiet in order to make a connection with yourself.

Perhaps this is why a lot of those self-help seminars or businesses don’t actually work… Because they were never designed to under that model, and because they never truly teach you about the law of cause and effect, or the fact that your own inner consciousness is always running the show.

We’re often taught or given frameworks, rigid routines, more courses to buy, more books to read, more supplements to take, more how-tos on how to breathe, what to wear, speak, move our bodies, and then wonder why the fuck we feel so lost and disconnected, with no desired results or real happiness in our lives.

Well, that’s because the only person who truly has the power to transform or change your life is you… and only you.

Learning to quiet the noise of others and return to your own inner voice of wisdom and truth is necessary, and this can only happen when we stop trying harder, following someone else’s guidelines for our life, or pushing harder to make something happen, as if the universe doesn’t actually want to give you what you’re asking for or is denying you the desires of your heart and soul.

Nope, we’ve been sold a lie and until you finally wake up and realize that the system was never designed to work, you just keep going around in circles trying harder and burning yourself out in the process. We’ve been told to do more, dig deeper, try harder… all of that bullshit that keeps people stuck right where they are.

But the truth is, God isn’t some external entity we need to beg or prove ourselves to. God is within and is our own divine expression. This divine energy wants expression, not repression. It want’s to expand, grow and evolve. Not be told what to do or how to do it.

All you need to do is let it flow freely.

Trying harder won’t ever work.

But taking a nap, letting it all go, not giving a fuck (but it a good way) however… now that’s where the magic truly lies, because you’re teaching your body that it’s safe to receive, to rest, and to actually enjoy your goddamn life.

You know… Like the way your life was intended.

I don’t know about you, but at this stage of my life I’m all about peace and quiet and that can only come from within your own heart and soul. When you’ve surrendered to the truth of who you are.

And that kind of magic?

Well it doesn’t require more effort. It requires more trust.

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Hey, I’m Lindsay Rose Martin

I consider myself to be a kick-ass spiritual medium with extraordinary intuitive gifts and psychic abilities that have the power to completely transform lives.

Through my connection to the spirit world, I guide people to awaken their highest potential, discover true love on the other side, and step fully into lives of vibrant health, happiness, purpose, inner peace, and personal freedom.

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