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happiness life after divorce marriage mindset May 02, 2019

On Thursday’s it’s payday, so we generally connect and go over finances, and budgets, projections and investments into our business.

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We’ve been married almost 3 years now.  I did EVERYTHING backwards the second time around.

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Baby first.  No big wedding.  

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We both are home full time now. Some would look at this as weird… Or different.  We are both busy. Both VERY sure and independent.  Yes we have 3 kids, and yes.. It’s amazing that we are both home. 

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I love this man.  He’s a gift and from the moment I met him I knew that he Was someone I wanted around for a long time.  It’s easy now that we are both home. No stress, and I think that’s been the greatest gift coaching has given my family. TIME.

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After my 10 year relationship ended, and I left my first marriage, I wanted to make sure I didn’t put the SAME me into the new relationship.  I had to change. I had to learn. I had to grow. I had to heal, so I wait a long time actually simply to work on me.

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So it was me, and my little baby boy for a long time.  I don’t know why, but I waited until my ex had moved on, but I think that was easier on my heart.  To see him moving forward first.

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I didn’t need to move on. I needed to FIND ME first, as I had so lost myself in dysfunction, in co-dependency, in control, in broken trust, in disappointment, in heartache.  

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I knew we were broken. I knew deep down our love would have conditions.  In fact I KNEW before we were even married, I probably shouldn’t have gotten married. The whispers were there.  I chose NOT to listen.

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I knew that I had to do the HARD STUFF, so that ultimately life could be EASY.  I still remember that day so clearly when I KNEW what I had but was so scared to do it.

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I still remember the day I collapsed in my kitchen thinking the STRESS was so much more than I could take.

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I knew starting over would be scary, risky, uncertain.. but I KNEW deep within, and I had to listen.

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I’ve always been guided from an inner wisdom. An inner knowing and I follow it. I trust it. I BELIEVE in my heart of hearts that we have all the answers deep within us.

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Today, after all that pain. After all that suffering. After all that brokenness, after all he hurt, the loss, the disappointment, the trust, the ups, the downs, I can honestly say this.

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We SO WILLING to do the HARD STUFF, so that your life can become super easy.  Be willing to STOP and LISTEN to what you know deep within is RIGHT, vs, what is EASY and comfortable.  

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If you do what is EASY, and comfortable, your life will always be hard, and it’s NEVER ever too late for a happy ending. I challenge you to be BRAVE. Have courage. Look yourself in the mirror, and be willing to do the WORK required to maybe make your life a little easier.

Whether that be with RELATIONSHIPS, Health, Family, Career!!!

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Please trust me on this one. This is your life. Your health. Your happiness. Your wholeness we are talking about here. 

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Don’t mess around with it, and if you need help, some guidance, some perspective, I've developed some SELF LOVE Resources for you. It's a game changer.

Get your SPARK back!

xo

 

Lindsay

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