Haters need the most love!
Nov 08, 2018
Have you ever been victim of a hater?
A mean girl? A troll? Someone that doesn’t know ANYTHING about you, has yet to have a real life heart to heart, walks in on a chapter, makes assumptions, and uses a word like “DISGUSTING” in huge capital letters. 😳
.
In my 4 years as a coach, I’ve never once had this happen so bad, but it totally happened tonight, and let me tell you.... it was the LAST thing I needed today.
.
My heart sank, my eyes couldn’t believe it, and I instantly stopped reading, hit delete, block, removed all the social bullying and comments and decided turn it into a life lesson.
.
It blows my mind in this day an age that grown ass women have so much hate in their hearts. So much pent up anger, resentment, jealousy, and TIME on their hands that they lash out and spew around words that hurt.
.
Like really.... if someone bothers you SO much, why read their posts, or creep them, or waste your time on them?
.
I myself had a shitty day. I felt like a shitty mom. A shitty wife. A shitty coach. A shitty friend. I could have done better today, and this just topped the shittiest of all shits. Perfect timing I tell you.
.
So instead of letting my shitty day spiral into more shitty days, overthink whether or not people read too much into things, worry if I “offend” anyone.....I actually said a little prayer.
.
A little prayer of forgiveness for myself for being less than a stellar mom today, and a little prayer of love to the women who chose to hate today and make rude comments when someone was speaking THEIR TRUTH.... a truth they had absolutely no right to judge or hate on.
.
I’m a good person. A loving person. A great mom. I love HARD, and I do my best every day day. I fail sometimes, but my intentions are always good.... and some choose to not accept or see that. Thats on them. Not me.
.
.
And a little Lindsay TRUTH BOMB..... People are suffering and dying....and seriously you’re so goddamn worked up over an Instagram post ??? Insert 👉👉 GET. A. LIFE... and be grateful for yours and do something GOOD with it🙏💕
.
Regardless Friends... Always always take the high road. Block and delete people who are rude, fake, ignorant and mean, and for the haters out there...
.
There’s an AMAZING quote from Brene Brown. She’s amazing and talks a lot about leadership and the power of OWNING your TRUTH and the power of vulnerability.
(Chances are you’ve a hater, you’ve never heard of her as she’s all about EMPOWERING WOMEN)... but she says this:
.
“If you aren’t IN the ring also getting your ass kicked, I am not interested in your feedback."👊💕
I leave that right there.
Night y’all 😘
Find Your Joy Again!
If you spend time on social media, you may have found yourself comparing your own life to your friends, family, total strangers, and celebrities.
You might find yourself feeling less than, struggling with feelings of unworthiness and your confidence, and health can be in the gutter.
Stay connected with news and updates!
Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from our team.
Don't worry, your information will not be shared.
We hate SPAM. We will never sell your information, for any reason.
